Saturday, April 6, 2013
The Gift of Together
God took us by the hand and led us into an amazing journey that continues to this day. We adapted so well to life together, those concerns seem silly now. Of course, there have been disagreements and conflicts, but we have worked through them, learning to give, compromise and sacrifice along the way. We hate any unresolved conflict which as it turns out, is a wonderful gift to have in marriage. We want to talk things out before they become huge obstacles. I have had to forgive David, and he has had to forgive me.
My engagement ring is a trilliant cut....it is triangular in shape. When David gave it to me, he said there will be three people in our marriage just like the three points of your ring....God, you and me. I wear it on my finger positioned so one point sits at the top, and of the two bottom points, one is slightly higher than the other. This is to remind me the top point is God, the slightly higher point is David and the slightly lower point is me. That is our secret....God is top priority, our spouse is next and we are last. We rely on God for everything, and we demonstrate our dependence on Him by praying to Him for each other every morning and night. Have you ever tried to be angry or annoyed at someone while praying for them? Yeah, doesn't really work haha. He's helped us through the first decade of our marriage and He will be the only way we will thrive through more decades.
God's gift of love between us has been an unbelievable blessing. Don't know where I would be today without David's love, support and encouragement. He has nudged me when I needed it, has encouraged me to stretch myself farther than I thought possible, but has also held me when I've cried in discouragement that I couldn't do more physically. He refuses to let me beat myself up. And that is a full-time job sometimes. : )
Thank you Lord for the gift of David and our marriage!
I pray you strengthen it and continue to help it thrive for many years to come!